Physical health is on a
continuum. Few are perfectly healthy. Sometimes, the apparently healthy
suddenly suffer a brain tumour, an aneurysm, a stroke or a heart attack. Their
apparently healthy body concealed malignancies.
Similarly, mental health is on a
continuum too. When someone totally loses it, and is obviously “mad” enough to
be sectioned, we say they’ve lost touch with reality.
But how few of us see reality as it really is. With a God’s eye view. As Jesus taught us to
see it.
If we could train ourselves to
think the way Jesus taught us to, what splendid mental health we’d have!!
* * *
Jesus’s teaching was strikingly
positive.
And here are a few ways I am
trying to train myself to think the way Jesus taught us too. And better mental
health will be a fringe benefit of this.
1 He taught us not to be afraid. "Do not be afraid," echoes through the Gospels. Most
of our fears never come to pass. And even when our anxious minds help produce the very thing we most dread, God’s help
is available to help us deal with it.
There is a difference between
prudence (adjusting one’s actions because an adverse outcome is very likely),
and fear: irrational dread!
2 Jesus told us not to worry
about anything at all. What a splendid recipe for mental health, freeing us
from circular and literally sickening worry. Worry is particularly unproductive,
because most of our worries (like our fears) don’t come to pass, and, again,
God’s help is available in our worst case scenarios.
3 Jesus advises us not to judge.
We recently had house-guests about whom I felt negative and judgmental. Telling
yourself not to judge can be like commanding someone not to think about a pink
elephant!!
So, as always in the spiritual
life, you overcome a negative thought or habit with a positive. And so I thanked
God about everything good about them—and, thank God, there was rather a lot!!—and
all the good things they had done, and felt substantially more positive about
the visit before they came.
4 Another startling bit of advice
Jesus gives is forgiving if you have aught against any. How sweeping.
When specific grievances surface
in my conscious mind, I attempt to dissolve them by thanking God for the good
things about the person, by praying for the person as whole-heartedly as I can,
and by praying for grace to turn the acid and claws of my feelings towards that
person into sweetness.
Any hatred--towards
nations, for instance--is as harmful to our mental and emotional health as
hated of individuals. I recently talked to a Christian man who was consumed, to
the point of mild insanity, with his hatred of the USA and all the harm and
evil its foreign policy has done. Releasing aught against any would require him
to release his hatred of the US—not for the sake of the US, but for his own
sake.
I’ve similarly know two American
Christian men who are consumed by their hatred and dislike of Barack Obama.
Gosh, I have never witnessed such hatred towards a politician as many American
Christian nurture towards Obama. If I hated Obama as much as these two friends
of mine appear to, I would need to “forgive” him before I stood praying to keep
a clear stream and channel of grace open between me and God.
Far-fetched? I remember Catherine
Marshall saying she had to forgive Henry VIII for his desecration of
monasteries as part of her releasing aught against any.
5 Another instruction of Jesus
which is great for mental health is “Do not let your hearts be troubled;
neither let them be afraid. Trust in the Father, trust also in me.”
* * *
So many of Paul’s precepts are
about following Christ in the secret place of the thoughts.
Rejoice always; in everything give thanks. Believe everything works out for
good.
Paul’s life was full of extreme
pressures—both glorious preaching, miracles and influence, and imprisonment,
solitary confinement, floggings, slander, and disgrace.
The mental health and strength he cultivated
in the secret places of his heart kept him sane, productive and creative in the
very dire places of his life, such as the dreadful Mamertine Dungeon from which
he wrote his most joyful and inspiring letters.
Thanks Anita - all things I think I 'know' and yet need to be reminded.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Emma. I was preaching to myself, but it's hard to remember these things when life turns pear-shaped!
ReplyDeleteI felt the peace from this article. Great posting at a needed time, as in America, so much hate for liking a chicken sandwich is coming toward us. And many other things as the world seems to go madly out of control, it isn't. Our God is in control. The not worrying and forgiveness is a key. Praise the Lord.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Mollie:-)
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome,Anita. The controversy is stressful, but your reminder of words from our Jesus is providence.
ReplyDeleteHi Anita, been following you for a while on twitter now, and only started reading your blog. I agree wholeheartedly with this post, however, I'd be interested to hear your opinion on how to practically implement these ideas or even how to aid someone in this 'attitude change' if you like. @johncp77
ReplyDeleteHi John,
ReplyDeleteHmm. When angry and unforgiving, one could try to thank God for what is good about the person, and ask God for help to forgive.
When fearful, one can make a decision not to be afraid. AND then, not take any actions which are motivated by fear.
When worried, as Paul says in Phil. 4, one can pray that what one fears will not come to pass, and then leave the worry in God's hands, believing that he will give you grace in your worst case scenario.
Thanking God for everything, even things whose goodness we cannot see or understand will help considerably with a sunnier outlook.
Perhaps, it comes down to praying for grace. And exercising mental discipline over one's thoughts, by substituting a positive for a negative. A positive thing about a person who's annoying you, a remembrance of God's past deliverances when fearful or worried. etc.
Is there a specific question I might be able to answer?